等

我和孩子们第二次在机场等候他们的爸爸回来，瑞数次问，怎么爸爸还不出来呢，看来大家都很盼望他的回来，因为爸爸是我们心目中的英雄。

小别 与 永别

小别带来的是强烈﹑兴奋及有回复的期待；永别是悲伤﹑不舍及无回复的期待。

小别永别都是人生平常的经验，必勇敢面对！

interacting with turtle

Kids like exotic reptiles but never have the courage to touch. Roy interacted with a little long neck turtle by using his finger. The turtle responded to him by looking at his finger. This is an intelligent turtle, which know how to attract people attention. Roy enjoyed his moment with this turtle!

MMU 毕业典礼有感

大学毕业后，就是你人生真正的起步了。人生大学何其大，唯有缩小自己才是特大的学习理念；学习无止境，唯有谦虚为武器。

Roy & Hin

Both Roy and Hin just have a month gap of age. Hin is Roy's cousin from his father side. Since born and up to now, Hin is much fairer than Roy. Hin has big eyes but Roy has long and small eyes. Both of them like to play with each other; sometimes very close until holding each other hands, but sometimes fighting for toys. As their moms, we always say this to them, "Boys, please share your toy, take turn to play it".

In fact, encouraging kids to share their toys has many good reasons. When they grow up as young people and adults, like us, the value of sharing and the willingness to share will make them more generouse in life, and less attachment to their belongings, and of course more happiness.

As the time passes, Roy and Hin can share more things now, because they have learnt it.

凯旋﹑仁瑞 及安聪

孩子们，看着你们从幼儿慢慢地长大成大男孩，兄弟们的感情都很不错，我就觉得很欣慰。盼望未来更多的日子里，兄弟们还是能保存着孩童般纯真的情怀，融洽相处。那怕未来日子的各种挑战，兄弟们共同应战与磋商，永不孤单。

从兄弟们的名子，爸妈们都有简单、意义深远的祝福： “平安聪慧、敬人敬业、景仰祥瑞、凯旋人生。”

Ren & Samuel

Guess who in this picture? Ren, again, put his hand holding Samuel's back, like what he did to me.

Both of them are good friend since young age, this photo was taken in early Oct 2002, Ren was about two-year plus, and Samuel was about six-month old. Look at them, they were so adorable, looking attentively to the camera. Ren was friendly; Samuel was alert to the camera, staring at the camera, with a lot of curiosity.

Samuel's mom said to me, let them be together, let the friendship continues. Yes, this pure friendship must continue, even though right now, both of them are not living in the same neighbourhood, and not attending the same school.

About Life 关于人生

人生充满喜怒哀乐，酸甜苦辣，滋味充足，好比是道好＇菜肴＇，我们应该尽量享受及品尝人生美味菜肴。

Ren Mom Roy 2

This is a recent moment that I have with Ren Roy, which I said I want to snap with them again. It is not easy too to get this photo. I rejected many, and choose this one. All are smiling (not like last photo that I posted earlier on)

Seeing our kids grow physically is a rewarding experience; seeing them grow healthily, happily, safely, wisely, and virtuously is also the many hopes of parents.

Ren & Roy

Ren Roy are both showing their happy faces, with their toys. In fact, those toys are not their favorite toys already. They have other taste now, which is Bakugan toys. Roy even asked me whether he can buy Bakugan on every Thursday, at Mun Seng.

Chronologically, these are their peak of favorite toys as according to time: Barney and Berry (the one in the photo), ..., Ultraman, Power Ranger, Pokemon, Ben10, and now Bakugan.

As for me, what ever toys that they like, I just hope that Ren's best 'toy' will be Roy, and vice versa.

Ren

As promised, this is a photo that I took with Ren, holding me from the back. I tried a few times of snapping this position, and this one turn out to be quite satisfactory.

Throughout this effort of getting a good picture with Ren, I learnt a lesson, a precious lesson: Appreciate the bonding of our kids with us. The bonding of wanted to hold or attach to you is getting less when they grown-up.

This is the evidence, which I have to 'beg' Ren for this pose. See, mom is approachable, but Ren is cool.

Ren Mom Roy

This is an interesting photo which I found from my collection, the photo was dated 2004 Jan 6. I enjoyed seeing this old photo, with Ren hugging me from the back, and I carried Roy in my arms, tightly.

The funny face that I showed could be due to Ren holding me too tight, causing me uncomfortable. Anyway, Ren nowadays seldom hold me like that, but Roy will.

One day, I must get them to hold me like this again, :) I miss the touch. I must let them know.

Roy

Roy is my son. He is going to be 6 year-old this December. Now, he is able to express his ideas more by using more choices of language terms in Mandarin and also English, so as Malay language. He said, in his mind, there are more ideas now; he can comment on his elder brother, Ren, by saying that Ren needs to clean his ear (as Ren pretended that he can't hear him); Roy also know how to ask Ren an interesting question: Is Racheal a boy or a girl?

To me, all these developments are new to me. I am very happy to know my boy is now a younger kid already, who can express his ideas better. In the next post, I intend to describe a little bit on Ren, my eldest boy.

A Passionate Website

This is a renew version of my old website, "MasterMinds", which has been left abandon in "Pesona". Since I like google, and blogspot is also becoming my preferred system for blogging. I am writing this blog as a personal passionate website, and will share my ideas, stories, etc with my intended target audience, especially, to myself, to Alan - as the loyal audience, and to my close friends and family members, and to others.

Creating a blog is extremely easy but to maintain it, and to have a progressive update requires persistence and passion. I like a quote that I put up in my room, which says that: Nothing in the world has ever been accomplished without PASSION. Here I am, building and maintaining a website, with passion, and therefore I have accomplished something in this world, a personal passionate website that I can offer, especially to myself, and to others who are interested to know my stories.